Wednesday, June 13, 2012

We have TA!!

This week has been a whirlwind it seems. We got travel approval on Friday and confirmed travel dates today. My heart has been so happy this week that I thought it might explode! It doesn't even seem real that she will be in our arms in just 33days. To know that on Monday July 16th our precious daughter who we have only known through pictures and updates will be face to face with us! It is truly a miracle of God. I have been thinking a lot about how our lives are going to change in some amazing ways and also the coming realities of having a 2 year old in the house....(We have been doing some baby proofing and I think after it took Karl 2 hours to put tot lok magnets on the cabinets and drawers he decided that you must be a rocket scientist to have babies. lol ) I have also been thinking about how life will change for Ian from going to an only child for the most part to having a new sister. I have been trying to just spend a lot of one on one time with him before she comes. I know it will be a huge change for him and I am sure he will have his moments but I have been trying to help him feel like he is an awesome part of the team to help get Meili adjusted to her new life with us. And out of all the brothers in the world God chose him to be Meili's big brother and that is a very special thing.

I love getting real life examples and learning from other adoptive families about what travel to China is like and about Gotcha Day and then the adjustments that follow after returning home with their children. Reading other peoples blogs seems to be a new hobby of mine. I can't seem to get enough soaking up every word and some are so moving that I find myself in tears and praying for the children that are home but have very serious medical conditions and are trying hard just to survive. I am amazed by the people who have adopted like 6 kids from China and then I secretly wish I could do that too. I always find myself asking the question how do they do it? They inspire me to say the least and I have so enjoyed reading all the blogs I can get my hands on.

So today since we got our confirmed travel dates the next step for me was to purchase our international airfare. They are a lot more than what we thought they were going to be. Our in country travel has gone up too since July is one of the peak travel times in China. We were not really prepared for the costs of all of that as we initially thought the cost for travel would be around $10,000 and it is now going to be more like $14,000. I don't really know why I am not freaking out about it right now but I truly feel that the Lord will either help me to get really creative in coming up with the extra $4,000 or provide it in some other way....maybe American Express...HA! I'm not really sure. We are waiting to find out if we will get another grant too and we find that out on this Friday (please pray)   At the time we filled out the grant application we had no idea that the costs were going to be this much higher and so...we are praying that we definitely get that grant and that God would somehow provide the rest. On the other hand I am really excited as I look at our plane tickets with a return ticket with Meili's Chinese name on it! It hit me when I looked at that wow she is really coming home with us!!

Our travel itinerary will be that we will fly out on Thursday July 12th from Springfield to Chicago and then fly from Chicago to Beijing a 13 hour flight :-/ We will get to Beijing on Friday and then see the Great Wall on Saturday. Then on Sunday we will fly to Guangzhou and then Monday is Gotcha Day!!! I think Monday morning. :-D Then on the 25th we have our consulate appointment and finally on the 26th we will get her Visa so we can come home on the 27th. Most families travel to Beijing then to the province and then finally Guangzhou to finish up and get their child's visa. Since Meili is from Guangdong province we will be staying in Guangzhou our entire trip. Meili will be taking a 9 hour bus ride from her orphanage city to Guangzhou so please pray for her as she makes a very long trip as well.

Please continue to pray for us as we prepare for travel. That the Lord would have his hand on us and give us a peace even though we are a bit stressed out about the money. Also for safe travels to China and while we are in China. Please also pray that God would be preparing the hearts of those he would have us share his precious word with and that I would use caution when telling others about Jesus so that we don't find ourselves getting thrown into prison and our passports being taken away. ( I get a little crazy excited sometimes about sharing the gospel and it's hard for me to contain myself at times.) It is really hard for me to understand the realities that over in other countries it is a serious offense to talk about Jesus Christ. I want to be like Paul and boldly tell others about the Lord but in reality I'm a little bit more like Peter and do some not so smart things at times (no offense to Peter he is awesome) Anyway I need to be smart about sharing the Lord and developing friendships. And most of all please pray for our sweet Meili. She will be scared out of her mind....heartbroken....to be taken away from her foster family...the only family she has ever known. Please pray that even though she is little that God would give her a peace in her heart and an understanding to know that we are her forever family and that we love her so much. That we are Mama and Baba and she can feel safe and comfortable with us. Please pray for all of our health and that the Lord would give us tons of energy. Please pray that everything would go smoothly while we are over in China with our appointments and things. Please pray that we are able to soak up the culture, the smells, the food, the people, everything around us so that we can be able to share it with Meili as she grows. Please pray that above all else we would share the love of Jesus and shine for him everywhere we go.



1 comment:

  1. Wow. There is a lot of "reality" mixed with such great excitement and anticipation. I can't imagine all the emotions you are feeling.

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